Shaykh Muhammad ibn Salih al-‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) stated:
The spouse is obliged to pay, and that includes instances when the spouse is really instructor, and has now been stipulated that the husband enable her to keep training. Yet he doesn’t have right to just take such a thing from her income, maybe maybe not half and never pretty much. The income is hers, such a long time since it had been stipulated into the wedding agreement which he must not avoid her from teaching in which he consented to that. Therefore he doesn’t have the ability to prevent her from training, in which he doesn’t have the proper to simply take such a thing from her income; it’s hers.
But then when they got married he said: Do not teach, then in this case they should come to an agreement however they wish if it was not stipulated that he allow her to teach. For instance, he could state: i shall allow you to continue teaching on condition me half of your salary, or two thirds, or three quarters, or one quarter, and the like, according to whatever they agree upon that you give. But then he does not have the right to prevent her and he does not have the right to take anything from her salary if it was stipulated (in the marriage contract) that she may teach, and he accepted that. End estimate.
Sharh Riyadh as-Saliheen (6/143, 144)
We advise both partners to not create problems between on their own by arguing over money, that might make their relationship a lot more like compared to lovers in operation! Instead these are generally lovers in developing family and building a house, so such disputes between spouses aren’t appropriate. The girl should willingly assist her husband to cope with the issues of life, therefore the husband should refrain whenever possible from using cash from her, for the reason that it has a bad effect on their position as qawwam (protector and maintainer), which Allah has on the basis of the proven fact that he spends on her behalf, while he, may He be exalted, states (interpretation associated with meaning):
“Men have been in cost of females by right of what Allah has offered one on the other and what they invest for maintenance from their wide range.”
The spouse must distinguish between exactly exactly what the spouse contributes to upkeep for the grouped household and household, and just just what she offers him by means of financing. It is really not permissible for the wife to inquire about him when it comes to previous, it willingly and it is not permissible for her to take it back, unlike the latter, which is within her rights because she spent.
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez ibn Baz (may Allah have mercy on him) stated:
You’ll find nothing incorrect by way of help with you taking your wife’s salary with her consent, if she is a woman of mature thinking, and the same applies to everything that she gives you. You’ll find nothing incorrect if she gave it willingly and is a woman of mature thinking, because Allah, may He be exalted, says at the beginning of Soorat an-Nisa (interpretation of the meaning) with you accepting it:
“But if they offer up willingly for your requirements any such thing from it, then go on it in satisfaction and simplicity.”
no matter if that is without the written paperwork. But then that is more prudent, if you fear some objection from her family or relatives, or you fear that she may change her mind if she gave it to you with written documentation. End estimate.
Fatawa ash-Shaykh Ibn Baz (20/44).
Ash-Shaykh Muhammad ibn Muhammad al-Mukhtar ash-Shinqeeti (may Allah have mercy on him) stated:
She must not simply simply take any work or employment except along with her husband’s authorization. Allah, may He be exalted, states (interpretation of this meaning):
“Men have been in cost of ladies”
Among the guidelines that Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, has assigned to males would be that they should really be in control of their wives’ affairs.
Consequently, the spouse should remember that he could be a shepherd and it is accountable for their flock, together with girl is a component of their flock. If he believes that there surely is a pursuit become served by her going down to work, he should provide her authorization which help her, specially nowadays. Just how many righteous women you will find through who Allah benefits people in the shape of their venturing out to instruct and so on, that will be beneficial to her and also for the ummah. So males must not deprive females of the legal rights, mistreat them or make things burdensome for them.
But if he believes that it’s better for her not to ever do this, then we advise the lady to provide because of Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, also to obey her spouse, for by Allah besides Whom there is absolutely no other god, there’s no girl whom thinks in Allah and also at the final Day, whom listens to her spouse and obeys him, out of faith in Allah, particularly if he has an mindset of protective envy and really loves beneficial to her, in which he seeks reward with Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, but Allah will give her joy in this globe therefore the Hereafter. She’s got to just accept and become content, and never look down upon the ruling of Allah, may He be glorified and exalted. Rather she should accept that and start to become wholeheartedly pleased with it, for whoever takes Allah’s ruling shall achieve Allah’s pleasure. Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, has guaranteed into the person who hears and obeys success and success, which include success in spiritual issues, worldly things plus in the hereafter, plus it includes triumph in spiritual things, worldly things plus in the hereafter. Each girl should examine her very own situation, for no hour or time passes when she actually is hearing her spouse and obeying him on a reasonable foundation, but she’s going to get in doing this such goodness as only Allah understands.
What number of incidents and tales we now have heard about concerning righteous ladies whoever husbands told them to complete one thing so they really refrained from it, and as a result of that Allah granted them goodness such as only He knows so they did it, and told them not to do something. And exactly how much difficulty lies in watch for ladies once they head out. Consequently, Allah has offered their husbands the energy to avoid them from heading out, and when they worry Allah, Allah will suffice them against difficulty. Maybe when they went they’d get astray and lead other people astray, but Allah, by their elegance, guided them to know and obey. That is one thing understood from experience.